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Re: Two sides to every divorce - His experience as the Ex-husband
Remote Name: 22.214.171.124
You speak about your ex. Please any help would be great. I was born brain damaged (never told until I was 38 years old, he knew it too. He divorced me(sit down) Because I did not die to the day the drs said. I did died 4 minutes clinically. I was hit with the paddles 3 times, I am back as you can see. I was heart broken 20 years of marriage 1 daughter. Men come a time a dozen. I cannot have any more kids. Don't 1. I want my daughter's address and phone number. The last thing the Judge told HIM was you better ALLOW this mother and child need to get to know each other, seeing you have bad mouthed her so badly. I have very little time to live. If I don't find her soon. He also owes me over $3000.00. I have Systemic MS and Lupus , I am in an electric wheelchair. If you have any ideas PLEASE Help me. I am dying of the diseases, Plus a huge broken heart. ~Angel (Last changed: February 26, 2006 )
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Re: Two sides to every divorce - My experience as the Ex-wife
Remote Name: 126.96.36.199
I'm so sorry you suffered so much, I'll keep you in my prayer's because even though it's over you muct still have some depression because of all of this crap you went through. My heart really goes out to you. My wife divorced me but for all the wrong reasons. I was completely honest with her and she lied and broke her proimse to me. I'm disabled because of a drunk driver hit me almost killed me. Sandra knew how my life was here in the USA. We worte for 3 years and she came from Brazil to marry me but changed her mind and went back home but a year later came back and married me. I had a bad letf hip that was always in pain and needed to have some surgery , replacement. so i couldn't work and she knew this . We are both Christians and i didn't do anything to cause a divorce. She just after eight years wanted more from this conutry i guess . she didn't want to wait for after the operation to wait so i could make these changes in my life. But wanted the divorce. So it's been 8 months now and I'm so sad. because i really, unlike your ex treated her with so much love and was always the giver in the relationship were she was the taker emotionally. no support from her just complaining. I remember her saying one time , you are the sweetest husband in the world the only problme is you don't make money? I miss her so much and I thought and know in my heart God brought us to be together he saved me from the accident and her from the cancer she got a year after we married. I rememebr kissing her bald head and supporting her so much through that cancer but i think she forgot. i think she forgot I do, for better for worse. I told her everything about me my life and she lied and didn't keep her promise of never divorcing me and always staying true to me. She's a american now and has a nice car, great job, and in shcool to be an accountant. Soon she'll make 100.000 a year. If not for me she wouldn't have had these great things take place in her life. She lied and i hope one day she'll see this. but i forgive her complelely even though it's difficult at times. I'll always love her and stay true to our vows because I feel we're still married before God's eye's and i pray one day she'll see this? but i keep busy now with college and hope one day maybe she''l come back home to me? I really believe in the power of prayer . I'm told I'm not a bad looking guy but I'll stay true to her. Chow, Randy Sandra I still love you and forgive you as God first forgave us :) God Is So Good !!!! (Last changed: February 26, 2006)
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