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Post # 0000050e
The ex is obsessed, and won't stop until all the money is gone!
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I have been going threw a divorce for almost 2 1/2 years. There are four children involved. I have been a full time mom for 14 years. During my marriage, it was very "OLD FASHION", I rarely had a job, or was able to pursue my goals to go to college. Now, that I am going threw my divorce, I believe now, that the ex intently "KNEW" what exactly he was doing. Never ever did it cross my mind, that my worst night mare would come true. He phyiscally beat me four times, after 12 years of being married, and in that 12 years never layed a hand on me. Degraded me in front of my kids, called me names, etc..I finally decided to file a divorce, after the fourth beating, scared to leave him because he was the "BREAD WINNER", I had to do it for the sake of my children. We put our house on the market, and it sold. I get paid a certain amount of child support, which living in California is clearly not enough and with 3 in school and one still at home with me. I have tried to put my kids in daycare with the ex to help, but everytime I have he tells his attorney that he never said that. We have already wasted more than $30,000. in attorney fees, Lawyer for our children, and now in process another 730 evaluation. I have begged my ex to not do this, that the money needs to go to our children, but for some reason, he has told me that he is just doing this because he is "pissed". My lawyer is just not doing me justice that I feel needs to be done. I struggle day to day trying to hang on to the fact that I need to be that fulltime mom, my children cry and tell me that they want me to stay home. I feel that this is a losing battle with the money that is being wasted, I have presented evidence to my attorney all documents for proof, and still no justice has been done. If any advice, please send any response to [E-mail address removed]
(Last changed: February 26, 2006)
Post # 0000051e
Re: The ex is obsessed, and won't stop until all the money is gone!
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Sorry, but I got a bit confused. Are you complaining about your attorney or about you not wanting to work to provide a mother's share of her financial support? (Last changed: February 26, 2006 )
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