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Post # 00000078
judge alienated father
From: ncass22@gateway.net
Date: 1/24/01
Time: 3:17:53 PM
Remote Name: 152.163.206.202

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16 year old son in jail for drugs, theft, violatation of probation, tells judge he dosen't want to live with his dad 
he wants to live with his drug addict mothers sister. his mother is the addict not the sister, anyway judge asks why, kid says cause dad does drugs, judge grants temporary custody to the aunt. Father denies sons alligations and voluntarily takes drug test, test is negative. Father submits test to probation officer and the court, and asks to visit supervised with son. Probation officer denies visit saying son does not wish to see father.fathers rights are now violated without clear and convincing evidence, and he has been alienated by the court system and the judge am I right? well theres more 
father is sued by the aunt and uncle for child support.He goes to court and for the first time is told he has a right 
to an attourney if he cannot afford one one may be appointed but.. the judge says since the son is being represented by the public defenders office there would most likely be a conflict of interest. 

So now you have a father who not only doesn't have the money for an attourney but who is also severe ADHD, by the way the 16 year old has dropped out of school 
to persue a career as a dish washer, so much for the best interest of the child. Son and father let down by the system of the courts in boise Idaho,and honorable Judge Vehlow, how does one take honor in the distruction of a 16 year old child and the chance for a father to turn this child's life around.  Still trying to find a lawyer to help as it would be sucide for my fiancee to represent himself pro-se, Iv'e checked legal aid, american dissabilities, and volunteer lawyers without much luck so far. Any suggestions?   (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

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Post # 000000cc
Lying and deception
From: Samantha Shepherd
Date: 7/19/01
Time: 3:33:51 PM
Remote Name: 165.201.77.121

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I would like information for my father on revealing a lier. My ex stepmother has custody of my babysister and is refusing to let us see her. She is on drugs. She is a pathelogical lier. She continually makes up lies to hurt us and try to keep my sister away from us. My dad is broke physically, financially, and emotionally. I can not stand to see him suffer. I can't stand the pain that I have be cause my sister is out of our lives. We have had many conselling sessions, home studies & court dates. The problem is that every time any thing positive comes our way her lawyer throws it out on a minor techinicallity or the findings are ingored. HELP ME BEFORE WE LOSE HER FOR GOOD
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Post # 00000093
Nothing is good enough . . .
From: cmya4u@aol.com
Date: 4/4/01
Time: 11:48:33 AM
Remote Name: 167.21.1.112

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One of my twin sd had very low self esteem. I realize you cannot compare children, but she is very withdrawn and unsure of herself.
I attended teacher conference with my husband. Unexpected, the bm showed up. The bm compared her to the other twin who is very outgoing and performs well in school. My sd has shared that she feels like she is treated differently than her sister, but doesn't want to leave her mother. But, in the mean time she has failed all of major subjects. . .but she is failing because she is not completing homework assignments. Now, BM wants us to pay for summer school, which we've agreed to, but she will not allow my sd to live with us so we can ensure she completes the courses. Furthermore, BM bashes us whenever we encourage extra curricular activities. But, BM always has an excuse for why she can't provide support.
What do I do (from a distance) to let her know we are behind her and want to help?  (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

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Post # 000000c9
she's hiding and says the kids are happy with their new daddy!!!!
From: ken3_us@hotmail.com
Date: 7/10/01
Time: 12:51:01 PM
Remote Name: 65.66.92.179

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to make a long story short, my wife left me 16 months ago.  I have not seen my kids since then cause she has moved so many times so I can't find them.  I found them at christmas and tried to take the kids gifts and she comes outside screaming and kicking on the truck and tells me she is not going to accept no gifts from me and no whore (my girlfriend was with me) but she had a bf 3 months after she left cause she told my sister about it.  Now she has moved again (don't know where) and tells me in her emails that I need to leave her and the kids alone cause they are happy with their new daddy (they are 8,5 and 2).I have asked her several times for an address and phone number so I can soeak to my kids and she refuses every time.  I can not afford a lawyer and I don't qualify for legal aid.  I went and got a pro se packet (kansas) and it says that with issues concerning kids I need a lawyer.....I just want custody of my kids so they have a stable environment instead of her moving them all over the countryside.  Does any one have any suggestions???  I have tried everything that I can think of, she ahs stopped emailing me and says not to talk to her anymore.I even wrote her and told her I was going to fight for my right to see my kids and I needed her address so I could send divorce papers and she still won't answer me.I need to know what I can do here cause I am lost.I don't understand all this stuff and the lawyers in this town will not work with me at all.  Any information will be greatly appreciated.  THANK YOU!!  (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

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Post # 000007fa
Re: Stay Strong(long post, sorry)
From: Thank you
Remote Name: 24.236.77.176

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Your story is so like mine. I too went through what you endured when young and am trying to use my experience to be a wiser mom w/ my young son. If you get this, please email me at chazezra2001@yahoo.com  (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

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Post # 0000007f
Ex-wife trouble
From: concerned
Date: 2/4/01
Time: 3:23:21 AM
Remote Name: 64.12.101.171

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Over the past 4 years, I can see that this is happening to us. Now, there are no phone calls coming back after leaving messages for his daughter. Are there any therapists in Utah, or attorneys that know about this syndrome that can help? Please...   (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

 

 

 

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