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Long Distance PAS: Parents and  Alienated Children

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Post # 0000007a
Long Distance PAS
From: Doug
Date: 1/26/01
Time: 12:26:58 PM
Remote Name: 150.177.10.2

Comments
How do you cope with PAS when the distance between you and your children is thousands of miles? The court found their mother guilty of obsessive alienation. It found the children suffering from severe alienation syndrome. Yet the court still gave custody to the mother. My daughter (17) and my son (15) refuse to communicate with me in any way. My letters and packages are not responded to; sometimes they are returned. I live in Maryland and they have recently moved from Washington State to Hawaii (and without my knowledge; I had to track them down to the public schools). What can you do when you're so far away?   (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

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Post # 00000088
Re: Long Distance PAS
From: Machel131
Date: 3/8/01
Time: 11:47:47 AM
Remote Name: 12.2.209.60

Comments
I am in the same situation. My X took my son out of the state when he was 14. I have not seen him since. He is 18 now and never responds to my letters or calls. I would love to know how to mend my relationship with him but how can you do that when he is so far away and still living with the Alienating parent?
(Last changed: February 26, 2006 )

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Post # 0000008c
Re: Long Distance PAS
From: Doug George
Date: 3/12/01
Time: 3:41:52 PM
Remote Name: 150.177.10.2

Comments
It is not an easy pain, and there are surely no easy answers. I'm not sure any strategy exists (legal, persistency, patience) that I have not tried. Distance adds the exponential multiplier of great expense to PAS' otherwise demonic allies of non-accessibility and time. It exacerbates the already unimaginable pain of PAS. Just to be able to see my children and hear them tell me to leave them alone would be an improvement. If I can offer you some possible respite from your torture, you may try gain from my methods. Research your child's life through the Internet. If your child is in school, find out where and approach someone there to report on his progress to you. The same if he works. They will provide you with meager offerings, but it will be something. For the last few years, I have relied on teachers, ordered school yearbooks, and sought their email addresses. A social security number search -- also available via the Internet -- will provide you with even more information. I wish you luck and Godspeed.  (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

 

 

 

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