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Post # 00000446
Ex Husband has brainwashed my three daughters
From: Becky Cera
Remote Name: 136.168.219.132

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I won't make this long but will say that my ex cheating husband (I divorced him because he was having an affair with my best friend then fathered a son with her) took my two daughters away on Nov. 11, 2003. I went the next day to try to get my daughters with the help of the Sheriffs Dept and no one was home. I have tried to call and no one returns my phone calls nor answers the phone. For the past three years my ex has alienated my girls against me, ages, 12,17,18. His prime goal is to take the girls away from only so that he won't have to pay any support. Well, he somehow was able to get a temporary order of full custody of the girls and to pay no support to me whatsoever. He makes 80K per year not including his 8K bonuses and I make 50K less than he does. He has our home and I live in a rented house now with my fiance. He has turned my daughters against me so that they view me as an unfit and unloving mother. This Friday is our court date for contempt charges against him. I had to retain a lawyer (at the cost of $2,500) because my ex now is able to afford a lawyer. I hope the judge sends him to jail and that I can rightfully get my daughters back. (I was granted full custody of my daughters one year ago) My ex has also NEVER paid the court ordered child support, instead he pays what he feels is appropriate to pay me, which is half of what is ordered by the court. We also have a court date on Jan. 27th for modification of support that he filed and had me served with. (He had my eldest daughter serve me, or should I say, she left it on my door step). After reading this past week about PAS, my three children are prime examples of PAS by their abusive father. He has acheived his ultimate goal: to take the children away from me and to not pay a cent in any support whatsoever. Funny, if he is such a good father, then why did he commit adultry? Not to mention he was making love to the woman while I and my three daughters were upstairs fast asleep. Ya, good father my foot. He's a sick man who should be put away. bcera60@yahoo.com   (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

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Post # 000004e8
Re: Ex Husband has brainwashed my three daughters
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Remote Name: 69.136.109.150

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do you think it's possible that it can happen with a cheating wife??? My wife has had an affair for over 2 years and when she got caught, we the family, have been in hell ever since. She seems to want to destroy the family not only finanically but integrally.  (Last changed: February 26, 2006 )

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Post # 000004ec
Re: Ex Husband has brainwashed my three daughters
From: Becky
Remote Name: 136.168.219.132

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Yes, male or female can both be evil. And I think our ex's only motive is to make everyone around them unhappy because they are very unhappy themselves. Sad.  (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

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Post #  000004ed
Re: Ex Husband has brainwashed my three daughters
From: Becky
Remote Name: 136.168.219.132

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It makes me sick to my stomach that there are people out there who dont give a dang about their kids other than to use them as pawns against the other parent! If I were you, I contact every newspaper, TV station, magazine, etc, and tell them your story of plight. You need help, immediately! I have decided to write an autobiography on my ordeal in hopes that other women out there will learn that they are not alone. I'd write letters to editors, I wouldnt give up if I were you because it sounds like your children are being alientated. Can you go back to court and ask for custody? I was in-pro-per until my ex got a lawyer and I thought I'd need one too. He hasn't done anything for me and I did more for my cause than my lawyer ever did. In my county, Kern County, it seems the judges are more sympathatic for a person who is in-pro-per! Take him back to court and dont give up. You can fight a court order, just go online and look for the family court documents in your state. Thats what I did. DONT GIVE UP!   (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

 

 

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