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Therapist Interference; Part of Alienation?
(therapist telling alienated child its ok not to see mom)

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Post # 000006c4
therapist is telling alienated child its ok not to see mom
From: a mom who lost her 13 yr old daughter
Remote Name: 150.142.238.102

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ex shopped therapist, and finally found one who is on his side, the judge does nothing about this, law guardian is aware that current therapist is not encouraging daughter getting back together with mom...what can be done, i have been in court many times, law guardian filed petetion against my ex and judge still does NOTHING.....so what can be done...   (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

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Post #  000006c8
Re: therapist is telling alienated child its ok not to see mom
From: Cdn. step mom
Remote Name: 64.228.227.45

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Was a psychological evaluation done by the court and if so which parent requested it? If no expertise was remitted to the court either at all nor by yourself you have the right to petition this to the court. Also the same therapist who does therapy cannot be the same psychologist as the evalutator. If this has all been done, the therapist must give you a progress report upon demand and if the idea of therapy is to mend the relationship between you and your child and there is no progress, you can request that a new therapist be instated. Hope this helps.   (Last changed: February 26, 2006 )

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Post # 000006c9
Re: therapist is telling alienated child its ok not to see mom
From: mom who lost
Remote Name: 150.142.234.230

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court order therapy is in place now with this therapist, ex has joint physical custody of her, and control over this, i have requested her records but the therapist refuses do to HIPPA laws in NYS. so i have lost again.  (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

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Post #   000006ca
Re: therapist is telling alienated child its ok not to see mom
From: more about this
Remote Name: 150.142.234.230

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my attorney asked for a physc evaluation in court, judge did nothing again, and ex was not willing to pay for it.  (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

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Post #  000006ce
Re: therapist is telling alienated child its ok not to see mom
From: mtndad
Remote Name: 66.44.197.106

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Take a look at www.helpstoppas.com. There may be someone from NYS there that has some expereince with the court system in your state. It's a good place to find support and advice. Stay strong. You're in my prayers.   (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

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Post #  000006e5
Re: therapist is telling alienated child its ok not to see mom
From: therapist won't give mom records because of HIPPA laws in NYS
Remote Name: 150.142.238.127

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im going crazy...and i miss my daughter TOO much. help me please   (Last changed: February 26, 2006)

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Post #  000006d1
Re: therapist is telling alienated child its ok not to see mom
From: suggestion
Remote Name: 68.98.77.234

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Maybe you could find one through the child's doctor. I know where you are coming from, because it's happening with my 6 yr old. The "therapist" or "counselor" went on the ex's side and the judge and "counselor" believes him as being so good. Keep fighting, you child is worth it, and try to be with her more before it's too late.  (Last changed: February 26, 2006) 

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Post #   00000718
13year old's therapist telling her its ok not to see mom
From: mother who fought in court and judge that did not want to hear about PAS
Remote Name: 150.142.239.63

Comments [none on this post]
(Last changed: February 26, 2006) 

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Post #  00000795  
Re: 13year old's therapist telling her its ok not to see mom
From: JT
Remote Name: 24.160.228.98

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Visitation is still mandated? Go to court to have mandate enforced.  (Last changed: February 26, 2006) 

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Post #  000007b8
Re: 13year old's therapist telling her its ok not to see mom
From: please read
Remote Name: 150.142.231.236

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current court order states"visation to be agreed by mom and daughter...well, how can that be if daughter is a PAS victim...thats the type of order the judge finally gave me......so ridiculous ....and he allowed the therapist to continue...ny family court judge just wanted us out of court...his courts are full of juvenille deliquents etc...judge just wanted us to go away...........try proving that....!!! i might as well be dead....for i have lost her forever...and if you lose your rights to being a mother what else do you have.....  (Last changed: February 26, 2006) 

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Post # 0000070a
Re: therapist is telling alienated child its ok not to see mom
From: Van C. Sher
Remote Name: 68.80.253.177

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Detectives and a shrink of your own will force the court to have a 3rd appointed impatially. Real drag on time and psyche, but that's only way. Is it worth it to put the kids through it? your decision. (Last changed: February 26, 2006) 

 

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